Gay websites · Grindr · London · Sex · Social Commentary

A (Potentially) Scandalous Sexcapade

Lately, there has been a series of accusations of sexual harassment targeting male celebrities and individuals in influential corporate roles. Some of these cases proceed to trial, resulting in the conviction of the accused, while in certain instances, the accused are acquitted. Others never reach the courtroom due to a lack of evidence, and a… Continue reading A (Potentially) Scandalous Sexcapade

Homophobia · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Homophobia – It Is What It Is

You scroll through your Twitter feed, and you come across a tweet “Homophobia hurts everyone in the long run”. It is one of those annoying esoteric tweets without any discernible context, where the author expects his myriad of followers to know what he is tweeting about. And if they don’t, they are expected to massage… Continue reading Homophobia – It Is What It Is

Grindr · Marriage · Sex

The forgetful Daddy

It was my birthday a few months ago, but I forgot to wish myself a Happy Birthday in the third person on social media, as people are wont to do these days. By the time I remembered it was in my opinion, too late to "thank people for their kind messages and wishes", even though… Continue reading The forgetful Daddy

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London Pride @ 50

Saturday July 2nd, 2022 marked the 50th Anniversary of the first Pride march ever held in London back in 1972. According to reports, over 1 million people came out to watch. Not knowing what the situation is with the epidemiology of Monkey pox and why it appears to only infect gay and bisexual men and… Continue reading London Pride @ 50

Grindr · Homophobia · Lagos · Nigeria · Sex · Social Commentary · Travel

Sex in Lagos – The Revisit

The last 2 years I have had a very nonchalant attitude towards meeting anyone on Grindr and other hook up apps. However, as a hangover from the heady years when for me getting laid was like an Olympic sport and the body count equated to winning Olympic medals, I still find myself habitually going on them to… Continue reading Sex in Lagos – The Revisit

Comedy · Sex · Social Commentary

Sex Writer’s Block – The Chains of Amistad

Still no sex being had, so nothing exciting to write home about.   But it appears my writer’s block, like an itchy butt rash seems to be clearing up .  How best to describe my writer’s block? Imagine for a second an idea undergoes the same processing food does when it goes through the alimentary canal… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block – The Chains of Amistad

Comedy · Grindr · London · Pride · Sex · Social Commentary

Sex Writer’s Block

I have writer’s block.  I start writing something and either my mind goes blank, or I find some obscure movie to watch on Netflix, Amazon Prime or Disney plus. This is what happens when you base 95% of your blog content on your sexcapades and you don’t factor in the impact of a global pandemic.… Continue reading Sex Writer’s Block

Gay websites · Grindr · London · Social Commentary · Tolerance

Man In The Mirror

It has been a while. It has been a year. I am not sure why it has taken me so long to update the blog with a new post, but I think I will put down to the global COVID pandemic situation and the ensuing lockdowns. I think it has impacted me mentally more than… Continue reading Man In The Mirror

London · Sex · Social Commentary

Even More Random Drivel

It is summer here in the UK and for some humans, it becomes uncomfortable to breathe. At this time hay fever sufferers are hit hard with symptoms such as - frequent sneezing, runny/blocked nose, watery eyes and cough - to mention a few, caused by high pollen count in the air. The pollen is so… Continue reading Even More Random Drivel

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More Random Drivel

**Some more inane drivel, (made even worse by being stuck indoors on account of the Coronavirus lockdown), which like most of my posts isn't intended to make sense** In my last post, I said I would bore regale you with how I am managing to remain unplugged from social media & Grindr for lent and under… Continue reading More Random Drivel